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I thought this man was a freedom fighter? Why is he now the mouthpiece of the Government or was he being paid to destabilize Buhari's Government.
“Insecurity, poverty can′t be tackled overnight, Igboho tells Sultan of Sokoto - Premium Times”
“Insecurity, poverty can′t be tackled overnight, Igboho tells Sultan of Sokoto - Premium Times”
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No state police without total resource control by states. Most states cannot even pay civil servants without federal allocations let alone asking them to add the police to their payroll and some Governors will turn them to their militant group to oppress opposition and for election rigging
“Insecurity: Tinubu, govs agree on state police - Vanguard”
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That's Peter Obi for you grin
This is the most honest and transparent man in Nigerian politics since 1904. Evil people stopped this man from being president because he will reveal how much is being looted everyday from under the very noses of all Nigerians.
He opened the veil of Anambra finances and cleared every debt, executed every project, paid every salary and still gave all accounts, and the state ended up on profits.
Nigeria needs a transparent man. A man of honesty and integrity, not a masked crook who has been in crockery all his life, without any identity or qualifications.
“N3.5bn scandal: Peter Obi seeks probe of Labour Party campaign funds - Vanguard”
This is the most honest and transparent man in Nigerian politics since 1904. Evil people stopped this man from being president because he will reveal how much is being looted everyday from under the very noses of all Nigerians.
He opened the veil of Anambra finances and cleared every debt, executed every project, paid every salary and still gave all accounts, and the state ended up on profits.
Nigeria needs a transparent man. A man of honesty and integrity, not a masked crook who has been in crockery all his life, without any identity or qualifications.
“N3.5bn scandal: Peter Obi seeks probe of Labour Party campaign funds - Vanguard”
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A broken dream
Nneka was a young, beautiful and ambitious lady, she had big dreams for her life. She wanted to further her education, she wanted to be a professional Nurse, she wanted to travel the world. She got a good job as a single lady and was gradually following her dreams, and then love struck. She met a charming young man.. David. Nneka had already travelled a few times out of the country before she got serious with David.
David was a loving sweet gentle man, he also had ambitions and big dreams, she loved him and he loved her…. then they got married. Marriage came with different demands and new responsibilities. David asked her to resign while he concentrated on building his career so she can be there for the children and take care of the home while running a business. She was to manage the business.
David never asked if Nneka was a business person or if that was what she really wanted. Nneka on the other hand accepted this request because she wanted her husband to be happy and she wanted her home to be fine (she thought)
Fast forward to 25 years after marriage, David fell sick …it was cancer and he didn’t survive. But one thing was certain, he died fulfilled or almost fulfilled. He was in his place career wise and was getting better just before he fell sick.
Nneka today is almost 60 but she’s kinda sad. She’s always reminiscing on her early years as a young woman, thinking about her aborted dreams and what life would have been like if she had not given up on her ambitions. It’s mostly regret for her, asides that she finds consolation in her children and her grandchildren. They seem to be her major achievements, which to her, doesn’t seem satisfactory enough.
I’m sad because I see this circle repeat every day…. So this is a message to young men and young women out there…
For the ladies
Sometimes you give up your dreams and sacrifice your ambitions in the euphoria of a marriage promise, or a marriage, forgetting that the excitement is only temporary and that reality would hit again soon especially when the chips are down.
When we go into a relationship that would potentially lead to marriage, we sometimes leave out some of the most important points to consider, one of which is our individual life plans, and our potential partner’s commitment in helping us achieve our life goals.
I know when two people get married, they become one… But actually, it’s still two different individuals, with different minds, and different dreams. And of course these individual differences will still play out even when they became one.
Ladies…
Before accepting that marriage proposal, discuss your dreams and ambitions and make sure he is committed to seeing you achieve your dreams, while you also show commitment in helping him achieve his.
Don’t be forced or cajoled into buying his dreams at the expense of yours. You both can support your individual dreams
Men….
It shouldn’t always be about you. Have you asked her what her plans are? Her dreams, her ambitions… she shouldn’t join you in fulfilling your ambition while she gives up hers. Trust me she may seem happy that you are happy and she may not voice out, but she could be full of regrets and unhappiness deep down. There should be a balance because we are all humans.
But of course…
If your biggest ambition as a lady is to get married and have kids, then by all means go ahead and disregard this message.
And if your partner is happy to share homely responsibilities and shows the desired commitment to see that both of you achieve your life goals, appreciate them and be equally supportive.
I know this goes both ways, but we live in a society were men are mostly particular about their wives and girlfriends joining them to build their thing and achieve their dreams without due considerations of her personal ambition… we always say “it’s for us” but what about her, is that what she really wants?
It’s okay to support your husband, infact you should do it… but husbands, it’s equally okay and fair to support your wife and help her achieve her own dreams.
If there is good planning, you both can achieve your individual goals, though it may take a little time. But first, there must be a will to support each other, and both parties must value and see each other’s dream as important.
What has caused so much disaffection in many homes today, especially when its coming from the wife, is the frustration of seeing her dreams and ambitions go down the drain for the marriage.
Encourage and support your angry wife to pursue her lifelong ambitions and see her become the happy and bubbly woman you once knew.
David was a loving sweet gentle man, he also had ambitions and big dreams, she loved him and he loved her…. then they got married. Marriage came with different demands and new responsibilities. David asked her to resign while he concentrated on building his career so she can be there for the children and take care of the home while running a business. She was to manage the business.
David never asked if Nneka was a business person or if that was what she really wanted. Nneka on the other hand accepted this request because she wanted her husband to be happy and she wanted her home to be fine (she thought)
Fast forward to 25 years after marriage, David fell sick …it was cancer and he didn’t survive. But one thing was certain, he died fulfilled or almost fulfilled. He was in his place career wise and was getting better just before he fell sick.
Nneka today is almost 60 but she’s kinda sad. She’s always reminiscing on her early years as a young woman, thinking about her aborted dreams and what life would have been like if she had not given up on her ambitions. It’s mostly regret for her, asides that she finds consolation in her children and her grandchildren. They seem to be her major achievements, which to her, doesn’t seem satisfactory enough.
I’m sad because I see this circle repeat every day…. So this is a message to young men and young women out there…
For the ladies
Sometimes you give up your dreams and sacrifice your ambitions in the euphoria of a marriage promise, or a marriage, forgetting that the excitement is only temporary and that reality would hit again soon especially when the chips are down.
When we go into a relationship that would potentially lead to marriage, we sometimes leave out some of the most important points to consider, one of which is our individual life plans, and our potential partner’s commitment in helping us achieve our life goals.
I know when two people get married, they become one… But actually, it’s still two different individuals, with different minds, and different dreams. And of course these individual differences will still play out even when they became one.
Ladies…
Before accepting that marriage proposal, discuss your dreams and ambitions and make sure he is committed to seeing you achieve your dreams, while you also show commitment in helping him achieve his.
Don’t be forced or cajoled into buying his dreams at the expense of yours. You both can support your individual dreams
Men….
It shouldn’t always be about you. Have you asked her what her plans are? Her dreams, her ambitions… she shouldn’t join you in fulfilling your ambition while she gives up hers. Trust me she may seem happy that you are happy and she may not voice out, but she could be full of regrets and unhappiness deep down. There should be a balance because we are all humans.
But of course…
If your biggest ambition as a lady is to get married and have kids, then by all means go ahead and disregard this message.
And if your partner is happy to share homely responsibilities and shows the desired commitment to see that both of you achieve your life goals, appreciate them and be equally supportive.
I know this goes both ways, but we live in a society were men are mostly particular about their wives and girlfriends joining them to build their thing and achieve their dreams without due considerations of her personal ambition… we always say “it’s for us” but what about her, is that what she really wants?
It’s okay to support your husband, infact you should do it… but husbands, it’s equally okay and fair to support your wife and help her achieve her own dreams.
If there is good planning, you both can achieve your individual goals, though it may take a little time. But first, there must be a will to support each other, and both parties must value and see each other’s dream as important.
What has caused so much disaffection in many homes today, especially when its coming from the wife, is the frustration of seeing her dreams and ambitions go down the drain for the marriage.
Encourage and support your angry wife to pursue her lifelong ambitions and see her become the happy and bubbly woman you once knew.
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It was alleged that Buhari died before 2019 election. Could it be true?
His signature was forged and he didn't notice. Even now, he is not being invited to the matter and he is not reacting to the discovery of the abuse of his identity?
“Nigerian ex-President Muhammadu Buhari′s signature forged to withdraw $6m, court hears - BBC.com”
His signature was forged and he didn't notice. Even now, he is not being invited to the matter and he is not reacting to the discovery of the abuse of his identity?
“Nigerian ex-President Muhammadu Buhari′s signature forged to withdraw $6m, court hears - BBC.com”
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Let Reputable External Auditors do Audits of party accounts
And Publish reports. But it seems Abure isn't a clean man. Many fingers have been pointing at him. He needs to step them for proper investigation to be carried
“Financial scandal: Labour Party suspends treasurer who ′exposed′ Abure - Daily Trust”
And Publish reports. But it seems Abure isn't a clean man. Many fingers have been pointing at him. He needs to step them for proper investigation to be carried
“Financial scandal: Labour Party suspends treasurer who ′exposed′ Abure - Daily Trust”
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But you’re subsidizing yourselves with huge allocations and allowances abi.
I blame Nigerians that allowed tribe to deceive them into voting a man without any policy.
“FG says it cannot continue with electricity subsidy - Nairametrics”
I blame Nigerians that allowed tribe to deceive them into voting a man without any policy.
“FG says it cannot continue with electricity subsidy - Nairametrics”
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Mindsviewers should stop verifying people without their real image in their DP.
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