All of a sudden,
The criteria for getting married is
Natural Hair
Long gown
Dark skin
Height (a very tall one)
And phonetic accent
And no make over...
Some ladies have been looking at the mirror since the release of the trending photos.
Others are crying.
Some have decided to cut their beautifully relaxed hair, simply because of one post.
Believe me, if you are feeling any form of intimidation or discouragement because of the trending photos YOU ARE SUFFERING LOW SELF ESTEEM.
In fact, you've not come to terms with who you are.
You better clean those eyes and stop sulking.
Stop h*ting yourself.
If you love to wear makeup, wear it with elegance.
If you love wigs, put them on with dignity.
If trousers are what you are comfortable with put them on in decency.
He who is for you will find you just as you are.
Remember, you won't see complete stories on social media.
Accept yourself the way you are.
Above all, why all this is trending news is because they worked hard to become who they are on social media and their cough becomes a trend.
If you can't give this to yourself, do well to give it to your children.
Work hard.
be under pressure.
I've seen Ladies in churches who wear the said decent attire, no make up No hair do's but they are frolicking secretively with brothers under the guise of church ministry ET'AL
Yet thrashed brothers who talk about make up and hair bla bla bla will still openly date a girl that wear make up and do her hair
Rest please sir
Rest Ma!
Do what works for you