Fatherhood requires dedication, empathy, sacrifice, and selflessness. The same thing goes for leadership. So, any father or leader who neglects his children or followers' needs, forces them to make sacrifices he himself cannot make, and prioritises his own extravagance over the well-being of the children or followers is indeed failing in his role and responsibility. However, if you are a father or leader and you are living extravagant lifestyle, you do not care about the well-being of your children or followers, instead you are making them suffer what you are capable to provide for them and pleading with them to make the sacrifices you cannot make for them or enduring what you cannot endure yourself, then you are nothing but heartless, irresponsible, selfish and wicked father or leader.
~Busdot
“Fathers are dying in silence - clergyman - Daily Trust”