A friend of mine was dating a girl back in university, she liked him which I’m aware of. We graduated, and she started talking about marriage, my friend was still broke, and trying to get his path in life, 1year after we graduated, my friend is still broke, his girlfriend keeps pressuring him, asking him what’s his plan for her which is the right thing to do, you can’t date a woman for 6years and you won’t assure her. She said the best time she could have gotten a man to spend the rest of her life with was when she was in school, and the alternate time is NOW, so she needs to be sure and get wedded. His parents know her, her parents know him already. My guy was still broke and life wasn’t just going the way he wanted it. Is it someone that can’t take care of himself that will fund a wedding ceremony? And from his little earnings, he was still taking care of her the little way he could. The girl started changing thinking he doesn’t want to wife her and he just wants to waste her time, she started seeing someone else, but my guy was only broke and things weren’t going smoothly with him, he explained to her countlessly but she claims she’s fast approaching 30, and the only time she has is NOW. She got toxic, and they ended up becoming strangers in a chaotic way, because the way they ended the relationship was very horrific. He then reached out to me saying he doesn’t want to be alone, that he’s been talking to a new girl and he wants to date her, I told him; you need to find yourself first, if not you’d be moving in cycles. He’s been able to focus on work more, save money better since then, we still chilled together last month, and he’s doing better now financially, even though he isn’t there yet. Building yourself before dating is never because you can’t get women while broke, it is for you, you need to save yourself if you want the best for yourself.
@itsShola
@itsShola
