Saggy breast? In his parent’s house at age 40?😕 advice needed👇
Hi ma'am beautiful morning to you
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My friend needs advice on her relationship
She met a guy like 3months ago,and the guy is becoming too serious with her,he wants to come and see her people and the all the necessary thing on her head but the challenge here now is
Firstly,the guy is 40 yet he is living with his parents,he doesn't have apartment of his own
Secondly,where he is working he is not earning much if he should do all the necessity in his life he will be left with nothing to take care of her need
Thirdly,she is 25,still a virgin but her breast has sagged,not as a result of mishandling by men or whatever,datz just the way she saw it,she said is giving her concern,she don't know how the guy will react if he later found out about it, because she told the guy no intercourse untill they are married and the guy agreed,
Now her question is This
Is it bad if she tell the guy to hold on with the marriage untill he is financially bouyant,or she should just allow him,
Secondly,the guy said that they will live with the family for sometime after marriage untill he gets apartment, living with the parent is it a good idea
Thirdly, should she tell the guy about her sagged breast now,or she should just let it slide?
Please help my friend,my advice is not enough for her as for me I told her not to agree to live with the parent that the guy should get an apartment of his own as a grown up man he should be confident of himself
I also tell her that she should let the marriage hold if only he get an apartment, because no one knows tomorrow,with God things can turn around for him and lastly she shouldn't tell the guy about her breast sagged since there is no anything wrong with her,she should just see it as normal circumstances of life,even if the guy asked that she should tell her that,that is how she saw it
But it seems she is not convinced enough