If you claim to have a spiritual father, you must do something to prove it. If you are disobedient to your spiritual father, you are not his true child.
If you don't sow anything, either in the form of service or material resources, into the life of your spiritual father, God will not recognise that relationship. (2 Kings 3:11)
There are blessings that come from the heart of your father; such blessings can never be reversed. (Genesis 27:33-37)
“Do what will make your spiritual father so willing to bless you that, even if what you ask for is beyond his control, he will commit God to give it to you. (2 Kings 2:9-15)”
Memorise: For though ye have ten thousand instructors in Christ, yet have ye not many fathers: for in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the gospel. (1 Corinthians 4:15)