Elijah Dibia @elijahomp

It is not enough to know your duty as a father, you must know who to lean on in order to weather the storms that will arise
(Dr Myles Munroe)
If you have to be a real man, a true father, you have to be resting on the solid Rock, the Chief Corner Stone, Jesus Christ (Ephesians 2:19)

You do not see the foundation of the building, why, because it is busy carrying everything!!!
Real men do not advertise their responsibility.
Real men do not go around telling everyone including their wives, what they are doing for them. Real men do not pronouce to the community what they are doing for their families. You just see the family functioning well and working together
(Dr Myles Munroe)

Listen sir:
It is difficult to lead children to the Lord if you are an absentee father
It is hard to take people to where God is if you are not heading that way yourself.
You cannot lead your family to a place where you are not going (Dr Myles Munroe)

Listen, learn and change your ways. Do not become a battle in the life of your partner, but a blessing, a safe space, a place of security

To possed understanding of something, you must know the original intent for it
First, what was in the mind of the one who made it? Secondly, how did the creator intend it to function?
(Dr Myles Munroe)

So, if for example, you are confuse about your purpose on earth, go to God who created you!!!!

Without understanding, life becomes an experiment and frustration is the reward
(Dr Myles Munroe)

John Maxwell once said "None of us is smart as all of us"
Loneliness is bad for your health.
Even God said "It is not good for man to be alone"

If only one party does the receiving all the time and the other person does the giving all the time, the friendship and/or relationship will certainly turn sour.
Love is not self serving!!!, Find a way to reciprocate

You must be ready to give God all. Not just part, but all of you, your mind, your heart, your soul!!