REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE A PERSON.
The main reason why people date is basically to get to know each other better in preparation for "MARRIAGE".
Relationship is meant for couples who love each other and are both willing to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife, any other reason order than this isn't healthy and may likely not end well for both parties. Some of the reasons why people shouldn't date include:
NEVER DATE A PERSON OUT OF PITY.
If you don't like a person let them go, if they love you honestly and you don't feel the same way for them, please help them and help yourself by letting them go, never date a person out of pity, they end of getting frustrated because the love isn't mutual.
They keep doing all they can to sustain and build the relationship but all their efforts may likely be in vain because everything that happens in these kinds of relationship isn't mutual, it would get to a point where the relationship would crash and in most cases this love turns to serious hatred for one another.
NEVER DATE A PERSON JUST TO PLEASE YOUR FAMILY.
There are families who still believe that it is their responsibility to choose who their children would get married to, they do not care if their children are happy with the union or not, the marriage must happen so that the family's empire can be expanded. This isn't right.
The role of a family is to advise and not to force children into a relationship they don't want to be in, some families go as far as threatening to disown their children if they disobey them, this isn't right.
Don't make the mistake of starting a relationship with a person you have zero feelings for simply because your family wants it, remember you will be the one to stay married to this person not your family, if you don't want the relationship decline and move on, don't deny yourself happiness because of your family. Every child has the right to marry the person they love.
DON'T DATE A PERSON BECAUSE OF PHYSICAL LOOKS.
Don't date a person simply because they have good physical structure, I was counselling a man and his wife few months ago and the woman said he just stopped loving her and when I asked the man what she did that made him stop loving her, Guess what he said, That her bum and boobs are no longer attracting him like they used to.
When you date a person only because of their looks, what happens if they no longer look that way anymore? You will dump them right? Physical looks alone is not a reason to date a person, the more a person ages, the less they look attractive, the boobs and the bum, even the 6packs starts to vanish, because love wasn't the foundation of the relationship, if challenges comes physical looks alone can't solve it so the relationship crashes.
DON'T DATE A PERSON FOR WEALTH AND MATERIAL THINGS.
He is not your idle man in anyway but since he has the cash you want to date him, she isn't your dream woman but she is wealthy that alone is enough for you, is this actually correct?
Why are you dating a person you don't have feelings for simply because they are rich, you're not interested in how you feel about them, you're only interested in material gains. What happens if these material things are not longer forth coming? You will dump them and go for the next rich person right? How long will you continue living that way?
Date a person because you love them, not because of their financial capacity, somebody said it is better to cry in a Mercedes Benz than to cry on a bicycle, Really? If you have all the wealth in the world and you're not happy with the person you're with, why date them?
DON'T DATE A PERSON SIMPLE BECAUSE THEY HAVE YOUR CHILD.
You made a mistake of sleeping with each other and you have a child together and you think that is a good ground to start a relationship? No. that isn't true.
The question is, do you truly love each other? Is the baby not the only factor keeping you two together? If the baby was not in the picture will you be willing to spend the rest of your lives together? Do you see each other as Husband and Wife material?
Don't date a person simply because you have a child together, be with a person because you truly love them, don't raise your child in a union where love is absent.
There are other reasons why you shouldn't date a person...Drop yours