Find a woman you love and then marry her. Marry her for her body and her mind, as well as her character. If she is not sexually attractive to you, leave her alone and look for your spec. Don't marry an available woman and drive her to suicidal depression by complaining about her body. You met her when she was plus size. You married her with her curviness. Now you are complaining that she is fat. Making her insecure. Causing her to have all kinds of eating disorders. Men, that's cruel. Evil even. Accept your wife as she is without trying to alter her body and soul, you big bully✅💯✍️