Akande Michael @blusher

Marriage is like going to the market to buy garden egg . it may look very fresh and good but the inside may be the inhabitant for maggots..
( Date before marriage)
When you presume that everything is alright, you may end up eating maggots....
One thing is to date, another is to date the right person because dating the wrong person can be hurting and complicated...

DATING WITH THE RIGHT PROCEDURE:
∆ Friendship...
∆ Relationship..
∆ Dating = Courtship = Engagement.
∆ Marriage..
Each stage will make way for the next step, which will enhance your relationship. Do not overlook any stage...

THE RIGHT MENTALITY BEFORE DATING:
~ Date with purpose..
~ Date with love / true feelings..
~ Date with honest intention..
~ Date with vision..

When there is no feelings, there is no need to date..

Dating without true love is dead already..

Without honest intention, dating becomes a child play..

Dating without vision becomes a distraction.

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU'RE DATING THE RIGHT PERSON?
√ Feelings are always mutual..
√ The intimacy is not about SEX but what you felt for each other..
√ He/She is always afraid to lose you..
√ He/She will always listen to your advice, also he will respect your opinion..
√ Your past will never be use against you..
√ Even when you don't have same vision, there will be respect and regards for each others vision and admirations..
√ You can predict his/ her actions..
√ He / she will never hide things from you..
√ There is no room for unnecessary silence and malice...
√ The right person will manage your weakness.
√ The right person does not expect too much from you..
√ Care, Attention, Appreciation, Love and compatibility remains their bedrock.
✍️🙏👏
Class dismissed 🥂

Secrets Women Don't Want Men To Know.

1. Most women subconsciously seek validation from men to feel good about themselves.

2. They know if you're confident or lack in confidence through body language.

3. Every girl had a first love whom she gave her entire soul to.

4. No matter how mature a girl behaves, she will always try to find a guy who can handle the little kid in her.

5. Women get mad at men for not sharing their feeling but most women won't say what they are truly feeling.

6. Your natural smell. Women find distinctive smells attractive. The next time she hugs you, she'll smell you too.

7. They lie about their body count.

8. They stalk your social media.

9. When a man sweats after some form of sport/exercise, the sweat on the face is a turn on for some women. If they like you secretly, they definitely enjoy eye contact. A lot of it.

10. Every woman is emotional and passionate.

11. Women's public bathrooms are lush havens beyond men's wildest dreams.

12. Nothing makes a girl laugh harder than when you copy something they said in a weird way. They just find that thing too funny.

13. They don't need any solution to their problem when they are sad. They just need warm console.

14. Just tell them what you are expecting from them from the beginning itself. Don't beat around the bush.

15. When they are in love, they smell your clothes.

16. If they get upset, they love it when you make up for it with kisses and apology rather than manliness.

17. They hope your guy friends secretly have a crush on them.

18. Girls will never admit that they like you. They just start talking to you everyday and start asking if you have eaten and other stuff.

20. They want a man who's good at seduction.

LEARN THE DIFFERENCE OF MEN & WOMEN IN LOTS OF ASPECTS.

Human Brain Analysis - Man vs. Woman......A MUST READ!

1. MULTI-TASKING
Women - Multiple process
Womens brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.
Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook.
Men - Single Process
Mens brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. they stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.

2. LANGUAGE
Women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems. Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems. That's why in average a 3 years old girl has three times higher vocabulary than a 3 yeard old boy.

3. ANALYTICAL SKILLS
Mens brains has a lot of space for handling the analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily. But If a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily, For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper.

4. CAR DRIVING.
While driving a car, mans analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fastly. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the object (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly. Where woman take a long time to recognize the object direction/ speed. Mans single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any), then concentrates only on driving.

5. LYING
When men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Womans super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Mens brain does not have this. Women easily lie to men face to face.
So guys, do not lie face to face.

6. PROBLEMS SOLVING
If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time. If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. she wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. She does not worry about the problems being solved or not.

7. WHAT THEY WANT
Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc... But Women want relationship, friends, family, etc...

8. UNHAPPINESS
If women are unhappy with their relations, they can not concentrate on their work. If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.

9. SPEECH
Women use indirect language in speech. But Men use direct language.

10. HANDLING EMOTION
Women talk a lot without thinking. Men act a lot without thinking.

🙏👏
Class dismissed 🥂